Monday, January 4, 2021

"Why We Sleep" - Changing the culture on sleep

I recently read the fantastic "Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams" by Matthew Walker. Before reading this, you could count me firmly in the camp of those who see sleep as an annoying interruption to the conscious waking life. No more. I highly suggest reading the whole thing, but the TLDR is that you need more sleep than you realize and that sleep impacts every aspect of your physical, emotional, and mental health. The author presents study after study showing acute and chronic problems developing from the lack of sleep.

The author does acknowledge that sleep need can vary somewhat from person to person, but don't believe anyone who tells you that they operate just fine on six or fewer hours a night. More than seven hours every night should be the target. That last hour or two is where you get some of the best creativity-boosting, mood-improving REM sleep of the whole night. At the end of the book, he provides Twelve Tips for Healthy Sleep from the National Institutes of Health that are worth reprinting here:

  1. Stick to a sleep schedule. Go to bed and wake up at the same time each day. As creatures of habit, people have a hard time adjusting to changes in sleep patterns. Sleeping later on weekends won't fully make up for a lack of sleep during the week and will make it harder to wake up early on Monday morning. Set an alarm for bedtime. Often we set an alarm for when it's time to wake up but fail to do so for when it's time to sleep. If there is only one piece of advice you remember and take from these twelve tips, this should be it.
  2. Exercise is great, but not too late in the day. Try to exercise at least thirty minutes on most days but not later than two to three hours before your bedtime.
  3. Avoid caffeine and nicotine. Coffee, colas, certain teas, and chocolate contain the stimulate caffeine, and its effects can take as long as eight hours to wear off fully. Therefore, a cup of coffee in the late afternoon can make it hard for you to fall asleep at night. Nicotine is also a stimulant, often causing smokers to sleep only very lightly. In addition, smokers often wake up too early in the morning because of nicotine withdrawal.
  4. Avoid alcoholic drinks before bed. Having a nightcap or alcoholic beverage before sleep may help you relax, but heavy use robs you of REM sleep, keeping you in the lighter stages of sleep. Heavy alcohol ingestion also may contribute to impairment in breathing at night. You also tend to wake up in the middle of the night when the effects of the alcohol have worn off.
  5. Avoid large meals and beverages late at night. A light snack is okay, but a large meal can cause indigestion, which interferes with sleep. Drinking too many fluids at night can cause frequent awakenings to urinate.
  6. If possible, avoid medicines that delay or disrupt your sleep. Some commonly prescribed heart, blood pressure, or asthma medications, as well as some over-the-counter and herbal remedies for coughs, colds, or allergies, can disrupt sleep patterns. If you have trouble sleeping, talk to your health care provider or pharmacist to see whether any drugs you're taking might be contributing to your insomnia and ask whether they can be taken at other times during the day or early in the evening.
  7. Don't take naps after 3 p.m. Naps can help make up for lost sleep, but late afternoon naps can make it harder to fall asleep at night.
  8. Relax before bed. Don't overschedule your day so that no time is left for unwinding. A relaxing activity, such as reading or listening to music, should be part of your bedtime ritual.
  9. Take a hot bath before bed. The drop in body temperature after getting out of the bath may help you feel sleepy, and the bath can help you relax and slow down so you're more ready to sleep.
  10. Dark bedroom, cool bedroom, gadget-free bedroom. Get rid of anything in your bedroom that might distract you from sleep, such as noises, bright lights, an uncomfortable bed, or warm temperatures. You sleep better if the temperature in the room is kept on the cool side. A TV, cell phone, or computer in the bedroom can be a distraction and deprive you of needed sleep. Having a comfortable mattress and pillow can help promote a good night's sleep. Individuals who have insomnia often watch the clock. Turn the clock's face out of view so you don't worry about the time while trying to fall asleep.
  11. Have the right sunlight exposure. Daylight is key to regulating daily sleep patterns. Try to get outside in natural sunlight for at least thirty minutes each day. If possible, wake up with the sun or use very bright lights in the morning. Sleep experts recommend that, if you have problems falling asleep, you should get an hour of exposure to morning sunlight and turn down the lights before bedtime.
  12. Don't lie in bed awake. If you find yourself still awake after staying in bed for more than twenty minutes or if you are starting to feel anxious or worried, get up and do some relaxing activity until you feel sleepy. The anxiety of not being able to sleep can make it harder to fall asleep.

Important footnote: It does appear that the author has overstated the evidence based on this essay. I think the main point is still valid that moderate sleep loss does more damage than we think.

Thursday, October 31, 2019

Elder Uchtdorf has given some great messages on missionary work recently. An article from the August 2019 Church Blog gives some great tips on how to make sharing the gospel more normal and natural. Most importantly, this should make our gospel sharing more frequent.

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/blog/sharing-the-gospel-in-normal-and-natural-ways

1. Draw close to God
2. Fill your heart with love for others
3. Strive to walk the path of discipleship
4. Share what is in your heart
5. Trust the Lord to work His miracles

I most loved this part:

"Understand that it’s not your job to convert people. That is the role of the Holy Ghost. Your role is to share what is in your heart and to live consistent with your beliefs."

I think we often put a lot of pressure on ourselves to win converts, when we're not actually the ones who do that. Our job is to constantly invite with love.

Thursday, May 24, 2018

Let the Book of Mormon Speak for Itself

What would happen if every person had the opportunity to read a page from the Book of Mormon?

https://magazine.byu.edu/article/an-experiment-upon-the-word/

Our local missionaries shared this message with me a few months ago, but I'd forgotten about it until I saw this article. What a great idea to help us flood the earth with the Book of Mormon!

Tuesday, May 8, 2018

12 Steps to Change

The LDS Church has put out a powerful series of videos about the 12 steps to recovery from addiction:

https://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/collection/12-steps-to-change

For anyone who's struggling with an addiction, or has a loved one who is, these give much needed support and motivation to make the necessary changes.

Wednesday, September 13, 2017

Excellent Articles to Improve our Missionary Efforts

I recently came across a couple of great articles with great ideas and encouragement for missionary work.

The first is a blog post from J. Max Wilson in 2009 with a simple idea that I'd love to see adopted by all members. When you give a talk in Sacrament Meeting - invite a friend to watch! This is an especially great idea for youth who are still learning how to give talks.

https://www.sixteensmallstones.org/a-simple-proposal-to-completely-revolutionize-the-lds-missionary-effort/

The sub-title of the second article is "Being authentic, loving, and humble is the most effective way to communicate - and live - the gospel." I could not agree more.

https://magazine.byu.edu/article/both-feet-forward/

I particularly liked the exchange that Brother Swofford describes about bringing up religion on a plane flight:
The most authentic way to enter a gospel discussion is to first seek to understand. I have experimented with the following approach when seated on a plane: “Good morning. I like those shoes.” The dialogue is now underway on a positive note.
Eventually it gets us to “Is this flight outbound or returning home for you?”
Inevitably they will ask me where home is, and I am lucky in that admitting I’m from Utah is like setting a timer on a predictable response. Three, two, one: “Are you Mormon?”
Now, I could launch into my memorized first discussion, but it is in Japanese, so instead I usually reply, “Yes. And you?” I then pay genuine attention to a lot of information about these new friends—their thoughts on faith, their struggles, and their current frame of mind. Then I am ready for the Spirit to direct the next move.
What a wonderful way to start a sincere discussion on religion! Members of the LDS Church (myself included) need to begin our religious conversations by first showing a sincere interest in what others believe. That not only avoids a natural tendency to keep religious discussions superficial, it also invites your new acquaintance to ask about your beliefs. If we made this a typical habit in our conversations, I guarantee it would result in both more people investigating the Church and a shift in public perceptions about Mormons being too insular.

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Starseed Pilgrim Review

Starseed Pilgrim is an indie game released in 2013 that was well-received by critics (83 Metacritic score) and heavily promoted by Jonathan Blow, the creator of BraidBraid is one of my all-time favorite games, so that got my attention. When I saw the game recommended in a couple other corners of the gaming world, I thought I ought to give it a try.

However, none of the game's promoters said too much about the game, other than there being a world to explore and that "you've got to play it for yourself". I'm a huge fan of Metroid- and Zelda-style exploration, and I'm always looking for similar experiences. That convinced me to buy the game on a Steam sale.

I've now put 4 hours into the game and I'd like to come right out and tell you what the game is: there is a relaxed exploration phase, but the core game is a difficult, time-limited puzzle/strategy game with heavy randomization. If that sounds appealing to you, stop reading right now and give the game a try. It has deep strategic mechanics and is worth the money, especially on sale. If you're still not sure, here's a vague description of what the game feels like, without spoiling much of the experience:


However, if that doesn't interest you - as it would have been the case for me if anyone had been open about the game's genre - allow me to spoil the game for you with a review of its design.